John Michael Oechsner

I'm so sorry for your loss. Although I haven't seen Johnny in years I have a memory of the day he was born. When his Mom and Dad came home from the hospital with him the entire street(Kopp St) was out in full force to welcome him. My condolences to his children and siblings. He will be missed by all.

At your service I listened to Pam and Vickie discuss how you loved to take things apart and put them back together again and man did that bring back the memories of the 21973 Grand Prix that we blew the piston rods on and the 1969 camaro that you made me buy with the $500 my parents lent me to get a car and you wanted that so bad that I got it. You took it apart but only got if half way back together again because you started something else. Like your sisters said always taking things apart and starting something new before it was finished. I had to chickle at that because you got it running and on the road and we used it for a while but never got to finish your dream car. You taught me so much that I will never forget.

One thing that I will remember from your service was how everyone admired you and how beautiful your children are. You are their angel now and you have to look over them and take care of them as you did while on this earth. Elizabeth was lucky to have had you in her life as I am sure you were lucky to have her as she was very strong and kind.

May you rest now and watch over all that need you. You will always be my first love and I will always remember all that we had. Whay a kind man you were, you could see it in the faces of the people at your service and your family. From me to you remember paradise by the dashboard light. Love you,

laurie.

To Elizabeth and your children I hope that your memories make each day easier for you. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful service I shared it with the gang from the rock in NJ

John, If it wasn't for you coming back into our lives right after our wedding, we would not have seen you since NJ. We are so happy that we spent that short amount of time together. We would've loved to have seen you since but that didn't happen. Your wedding gift to us was truely one of our favorites and we still use that shell lamp to this day in our bedroom; 15 1/2 years later! Your name has been mentioned in our home many times over the years because of that lamp and it will be mentioned many more times, for sure! You will never be forgotton. We had a one of a kind friendship; the whole group of us. So many memories; we had so much fun, didn't we? I believe your the second of us, from the rock, to go to heaven, Kenny was the first. You have a lot of great company up there; lots of loved ones! You are surely missed and always loved.

Love Your Friends,

Lisa & Ernie Romano

Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow,

May looking back in memory help comfort your tomorrow.

Rest in peace John and look after your family & friends.

John,

Bob and I have sweet, wonderful memories of you from our days living in Randolph. You helped babysit my boys, Jason and Marc so often and they loved you as we do. The Lord needed you now and I know you will be happy there, guiding and watching your family from above. Peace and Love, Bob and Melissa

John,I was truly saddened when i found out that you left us at such a early time in your life.You were my son in law ,you werw a kind and careing person.I will miss you and i wish we had spent more time together.You will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Rest In peace.